Thursday, July 16, 2009

It’s easier to be stupid

Hi Everyone,

Holy cow it's been a while since I've blogged on here. Too much time on my Facebook page I guess.

I found a GREAT blog recently from the legendary "Pitbull of Self-Development" himself - Sir Larry Winget.
















It's called...

"It's Easier To Be Stupid!"

That’s right. It’s easier to be stupid than it is be smart.

It is easier to listen to the political pundits and television news anchors and trust their words completely than it is to study, read, and search to discover the truth about a political issue or to actually read one of the bills or proposals you are so vehemently for or against.

It is easier to believe Rush or O’Reilly or Hannity or Olberman or Rachel or Beck or even Larry Winget than it is to actually do a little fact checking of your very own. It’s work to find the truth out about any issue, so it’s easier to just accept what you hear as fact.

It is easier to listen to the preachers and believe every word they say from their pulpit than it is to read the book yourself, or maybe lots of books and search for your own insight and develop your beliefs based on your own experiences.

It’s easier to just toe the party line because you are registered Democrat or Republican than it is to ask whether the party line makes sense or not.

It’s easier to believe your doctor when he tells you that you should take a pill rather than to do some research or get a second opinion to find out if he knows what he is talking about or whether he is padding his pocket and those of the pharmaceutical companies.

It’s easier to buy a pill or have surgery to lose the pounds than it is to start eating right and doing some exercise.

It’s easier to steal a car than it is to get a job, earn money, build credit and buy a car.

It’s easy to charge something than it is to pay cash.

It’s easier to blame than to take responsibility.

Bottom line it’s just easier to be stupid and do stupid things.

Smart people take responsibility for their lives. They require a lot from themselves and from others. Smart people work hard and pay their bills. Smart people are good parents. Smart people are concerned about their health and the health of their family.

The argument from many is going to be that there are many smart people who aren’t good parents. Or that there are smart people who don’t work hard or pay their bills. Or that there are plenty of smart people who are obese. You can’t sell me on that argument. These people all might be intelligent, but they aren’t smart, they are stupid.

Being smart requires that you do the right thing or at least work at trying to do the right thing.

We are a society who loves to brag about how smart we are. But are we? It doesn’t appear so on many fronts. Being smart requires that we be responsible and that simply is not the case for most people. We require almost nothing of ourselves that involves any real work, effort or sacrifice.

The Bible says “to whom much is given, much is required.” And each of us has been given a lot.

We have been given a great planet to live on yet we stupidly spend most of our day destroying it. After all, it’s work to conserve. It requires sacrifice. Not big sacrifices for sure, but even a small sacrifice requires more of us than no sacrifice. “Give up my gas guzzler? No way!” “Put in energy conserving light bulbs? They cost a dollar more!” “Turn up my thermostat two degrees? What? I’ve earned the right to be as cool as I want to be!”

We have been given a job yet few people do more than what is minimally required of them in order to keep their job and draw their check. After all, giving your best requires integrity and it easier to live without integrity than with it.

We have been given great kids yet we don’t communicate with them, spend much time with them or set good examples for them.

We are given great civil liberties yet few people vote or become involved.

Most of us were given health yet we ate our way, smoked our way and lazyed our way out of that great gift.

We have been given the opportunity to accomplish great things yet we squander that opportunity by sitting on our ass and watching mindless drivel on the television.

We have been given all the keys to success, happiness and prosperity but only a few will ever bother to read the books that hold those keys.

Instead, we take the easy way out. The stupid way out. Because anything else would require effort and few are willing to put in the effort to change their lives or their circumstances.

Instead, they would rather just complain about the hand they have been dealt and their lot in life. They would rather bitch about Obama or Bush or the stupidity of others than own up to their own laziness and stupidity. They would rather blame the economy or Wall Street rather than own up to the fact that they overspent and never saved. They would rather blame their boss than own up to the fact that they called in sick when they weren’t and took longer breaks than allowed and gave 75% effort instead of 100%. They would rather blame the school system than realize that they never spent any time with their kids making sure they could add or read or spell. They would rather blame the government for squandering their tax dollars than admit that they cheated on their own income taxes.

Being given much really does mean that much is required of you.

It means that if you have money, you are required to do the right thing with your money including saving, investing, spending and being charitable.

It means that if you have kids you are required to talk to them, spend time with them, teach them and set a good example for them.

It means that if you have a job you are required to give it your best for no other reason than you were hired to do so.

It also means that if you are smart, you are required to use your smarts in ways that serve yourself, your family and others in responsible ways. And that requires work. That’s why it’s easier to be stupid – it doesn’t really require any work.

I will readily admit that I often do take the easy way out myself. I find it easier to NOT do something than it is to do something. I try not to get caught in that trap often and I try not to let it spread like a cancer into all areas of my life. I try to recognize it quickly, correct it even quicker and get back on track immediately. But it still happens and I still offer myself excuses for it. Bottom line: There is no excuse. Doing the easy thing is rarely about doing the right thing. If the wind is at your back, you are going the wrong direction.

What are YOU doing? Are you taking the easy way out?

I want to add to this but I think Larry said it all!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

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Friday, June 05, 2009

What I'm sitting reading right now and a glimpse of my favorite magazines!

Hi Everyone,

I'm sitting in my personal office, waiting for my wife to get home, and reading a great book that I cannot recommend enough called My Remarkable Journey by Larry King.

















You can get it here!

The story is not only inspiration but educational and informative.

As someone who often does interviews about my books and CD programs, the book proves its worth over and over by teaching me the mindset of someone who is trying to get in my head and elicit the best information from me.

And as someone who also interviews many bestselling authors and celebrities, I was amazed to find out that Larry King does not prepare one question prior to an interview. He comes out of the gate just like his audience - curious at a fundamental level.

The things I'm learning are amazing to say the least. If you're looking for a great book and enjoy biographies - buy it today! Or check it out at your local library like I did!

Oh...

I have many people asking me what magazines I like to read. I'm not sure why they ask - but here's the short list of my personal subscriptions...

- MacWorld
- Fortune
- Rolling Stone
- Psychology Today
- GQ
- Health
- CondeNast Portfolio
- Success
- Hypnotic Gold
- Trafficology
- Think Big
- Inc.
- Entrepreneur
- Fast Company

(MacWorld being my favorite by far!)

Oh man - I know I'm missing a few. We'll --- you get the message.

Getting ready for a weekend of working on my new book --- seeing my nephew Brenden --- and hitting the Mustang/Cobra car show (and seeing the 1966 TV Batmobile) at the world famous Volo Auto Museum!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" eBook - please click here.

Audible audio version available here.

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PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

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Sunday, May 17, 2009

Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About audio - just declared an instant BESTSELLER on Audible! (Also available on iTunes!)

Hi Everyone,

My new Gildan Media audio program, "Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About" is an official bestseller on Audible.com!



























I'm excited to be sharing the list with the likes of other historical bestsellers like Robert Kiyosaki, David Schwartz, James Kramer, and even the legendary Dale Carnegie. WOW!

You can get it from Audible right here.

"Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About" has also just been released on iTunes.

Then comes the "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" on Audible and iTunes. Big summer!!!!!

I dedicate this to all the critics and naysayers I've dealt with throughout my life!

And you have not seen anything yet my friends!!!!!

Gotta run - much to do!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

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Saturday, May 09, 2009

Who do you associate with and where are they leading you?

Hi Everyone,

Jim Rohn is my favorite business philosopher bar none.










After working in the self-help industry for more than 20 years for Nightingale-Conant and after that - working with most of the biggest self-help authors on the planet, I can say from authority, that Jim Rohn is the real deal.

When he used to come to Nightingale-Conant, I spent every minute I could with him. I always learned so much.

One of the principles, I learned from Jim was about the importance of who I associate with. Friends, family, everyone - and their impact on me. I learned quickly that if I was to grow, i had to be around others doing the same.

I want to share part 1, of a two-part article of Jim's called...

Evaluating Your Associations (Part I)
by Jim Rohn


If you were to evaluate the major influences in your life that have shaped the kind of person you are, this has to be high on the list: the people and thoughts you choose to allow into your life.

Mr. Shoaff gave me a very important warning in those early days that I would like to share with you. He said, "Never underestimate the power of influence." Indeed, the influence of those around us is so powerful! Many times we don't even realize we're being strongly affected because influences generally develop over an extended period of time.

Peer pressure is an especially powerful force because it is so subtle. If you're around people who spend all they make, chances are excellent that you'll spend all you make. If you are around people who go to more ball games than concerts, chances are excellent that you'll do the same thing.

If you are around people who don't read, chances are excellent that you won't read. People can keep nudging us off course a little at a time until finally, we find ourselves asking, "How did I get here?" Those subtle influences need to be studied carefully if we really want our lives to turn out the way we've planned.

With regard to this important point, let me give you three key questions to ask yourself. They may help you to make better analysis of your current associations.

Here is the first question: "Who am I around?" Make a mental note of the people with whom you most often associate. You've got to evaluate everybody who is able to influence you in any way.

The second question is: "What are these associations doing to me?" That's a major question to ask. What have they got me doing? What have they got me listening to? What have they got me reading? Where have they got me going?

What do they have me thinking? How have they got me talking? How have they got me feeling? What have they got me saying? You've got to make a serious study of how others are influencing you, both negatively and positively.

Here's a final question: "Is that okay?" Maybe everyone you associate with has been a positive, energizing influence. Then again, maybe there are some bad apples in the bunch.

All I'm suggesting here is that you take a close and objective look. Everything is worth a second look, especially the power of influence. Both will take you somewhere, but only one will take you in the direction you need to go.

It's easy to just dismiss the things that influence our lives. One man say's, "I live here, but I don't think it matters. I'm around these people, but I don't think it hurts." I would take another look at that. Remember, everything matters! Sure, some things matter more than others, but everything amounts to something.

You've got to keep checking to find out whether your associations are tipping the scales toward the positive or toward the negative. Ignorance is never the best policy. Finding out is the best policy.

Perhaps you've heard the story of the little bird. He had his wing over his eye and he was crying. The owl said to the bird, "You are crying." "Yes," said the little bird, and he pulled his wing away from his eye. "Oh, I see," said the owl. "You're crying because the big bird pecked out your eye." And the little bird said, "No, I'm not crying because the big bird pecked out my eye. I'm crying because I let him."

It's easy to let influence shape our lives, to let associations determine our direction, to let pressures overwhelm us, and to let tides take us. The big question is, are we letting ourselves become what we wish to become?

(End of Part 1 - Part 2 on what to do next will be posted next week.)

By the way - my two new audio books (Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About and Negotiate Your Way To Riches) are FINALLY about to be released on iTunes and Audible.com in the next couple weeks.

Gotta run - much to do!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

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Sunday, April 26, 2009

Peter Wink live interview on negotiating!

Hi Everyone,

Check out the "Negotiate Your Way To Riches" interview I did for powerUp english!

Just click here.

And...

Make sure and watch for the new audio versions of...

- Negotiate Your Way to Riches
- Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About

Both being released in May 2009 (delayed) on Audible.com and iTunes.

Also, I'm making progress on my new book - will be done this Summer. Details to follow!

Spending the day working and seeing family.

Gotta run - much to do!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

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Sunday, April 12, 2009

Where do you find inspiration?

Hi Everyone,

I was recently thumbing through one of my favorite books called...

The Quotable Walt Disney available here.








It made me think of some of my favorite Disney quotes.

Here are a few that resonate with me and things I do personally...

"We are not trying to entertain the critics. I'll take my chances with the public."

"You can design and create, and build the most wonderful place in the world. But it takes people to make the dream a reality."

"Somehow I can't believe there are any heights that can't be scaled by a man who knows the secret of making dreams come true. This special secret, it seems to me, can be summarized in four C's. They are Curiosity, Confidence, Courage, and Constancy and the greatest of these is Confidence. When you believe a thing, believe it all the way, implicitly and unquestionably."

"Why do we have to grow up? I know more adults who have the children's approach to life. They're people who don't give a hang what the Joneses do. You see them at Disneyland every time you go there. They are not afraid to be delighted with simple pleasures, and they have a degree of contentment with what life has brought - sometimes it isn't much, either."

"Or heritage and ideals, our code and standards - the things we live by and teach our children - are preserved or diminished by how freely we exchange ideas and feelings."

"A man should never neglect his family for business."

"I only hope that we don't lose sight of one thing - that it was all started by a mouse."

Each of these quotes means something special to me.

Hopefully, you have your own sources of inspiration!

Make sure and watch for the new audio versions of...

- Negotiate Your Way to Riches
- Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About

Both being released in May 2009 (delayed) on Audible.com and iTunes.

Also, I'm making progress on my new book - will be done this Summer. Details to follow!

Spending the day working and seeing family.

Gotta run - much to do!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

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Saturday, March 28, 2009

Don't read this unless you're ambitious!

Hi Everyone,

A good friend of mine Theresa Puskar (infomercial hostess extraordinaire) gave me something that has become a most cherished gift. In fact, I see and read it everyday.



















She took a quote from Theodore Roosevelt and put it in a beautiful frame. What made the gift extra special is that she said I exemplified the quote.



















Theodore Roosevelt

Here it is verbatim.

The credit belongs to the man...
who is actually in the arena...
who strives valiantly...
who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions...
and spends himself in a worthy cause...
who at best, know the triumph of high achievement; and...
who, at the worst, if he fails...
at least fails daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with
those cold and timid souls...
who know neither victory nor defeat.

Powerful words.

Like most people, I do not see myself the way others do, and I'll say that I see no reason to live the life of a wallflower. To me that is what loser's do.

I do not believe you or I were put here to waste away in the background or to sit on the sidelines of the great game of life. You're either a player or not.

Remember, there is no perfect time to do what it is you want to do.

- If you want to start a business - start it!
- If you want to raise a family - start it!
- If you want to change your financial plan - start it!
- If you want to be a better spouse - start it!
- If you want to find a better relationship - start it!

You get the point!!!! Whatever you want to do - start it! And don't give me the "my situation is different" or "it's too complicated." That's loser speak! Just another excuse. There's always a way if you're committed. (You know it and I know it - so let's cut the B.S. here and now.)

What are you waiting for? Yesterday is gone and tomorrow never exists. Whether you want to think about it or not - you could die today. Then what?

Personally, I've never run from a worthwhile challenge. That has netted me some great results - contrary to the useless advice of my critics.

In fact, I have to laugh. I can still remember my guidance counselor in high school giving me what turned out to be some of the most useless advice on planet earth. Pretty much everything he told me ended up false. Thankfully, I was a rebellious person then as I am now. I believe in marching to the beat of my own drummer. After all, whose life is this anyway? It's certainly not my families, my wife's, my friend's or anyone elses.

I want to close this blog, whether useful to you or not, with one of my favorite poems. One I live my life by everyday.

It is called ONLY A PERSON WHO RISKS IS FREE by Author Unknown. (I've posted it before and here it is again.)

Here it is my friend...

To laugh is to risk appearing the fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach for another is to risk involvement.
To expose your ideas, your dreams, before a crowd is to risk their loss.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying.
To believe is to risk despair.
To try is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
The people who risk nothing, do nothing, have nothing, are nothing.
They may avoid suffering and sorrow, but they cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, live.
Chained by their attitudes they are slaves; they have forfeited their freedom.
Only a person who risks is free.

If you are not taking the chances you know deep down you need to, you have nobody to blame but yourself for your results.

Don't waste time crying to your spouse, family members, friends or anyone else. They likely already know that you are not doing anything but whining and they likely are sick of listening to you. If you don't believe me, think of the reaction you have to a friend or family member who does it to you!

Bottom line: Get off your rear and do something instead of pissing, whining and moaning to others. WE DON'T CARE!

In the end, only you can do what you need to do.

Now onto more interesting things...

Make sure and watch for the new audio versions of...

- Negotiate Your Way to Riches
- Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About

Both being released in the next four weeks on Audible.com and iTunes.

Also, I'm making progress on my new book - will be done this Summer. Details to follow!

Spending the rest of the day working on my new book while my wife is with my niece at some show about "Dora The Explorer." (Whatever that is.)

Gotta run - much to do!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

PPPS...To get a copy of my bestselling audio CD program "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" please click here!

PPPS...Join my Facebook network here.


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